To be honest I really did not become a feminist exccept 3 years ago when I decided that I cannot be by all means be a slave for a guy just because the culture wants me to be so or do so, that's I have decided to become a feminist. Simply because I cannot imagen myself after getting married I will do nothing but do the house duties and wash my hubbie's laundry that's simply not me I cannot see myself doing this shit in the name of the so called love (which is not true btw (I don't believe it actually exists) ), simply that's so not me and it will never ever gonna be me, not even after 10 years time from now.
Simply because I totally think that the house duties should be done by the girl and the guy not just by the girl only, because simply the guy is married to a girl not a filthy slave that dose nothing but to clean his after his bloody shit and cook for him. Basically I totally think girls who dose that in the name of so called love are nothing but so bloody dumb girls to be honest lol.
What I personally believe in is that the house duties should be devided on the couples.mfor example the girl cooks the guy clean (or vice versa) etc... I personally don't think the girl must do the entire house duties and the guy dose nothing that's bull shit to be honest.
Personally I will not gonna get married because I really can't imagen myself doing the house duties and personally to be honest I really can't imagen myself doing his laundry personally I really think it's something disgusting, basically being married and having kids I think it's disgusting because in the end I will do nothing but house duties kids duties and their laundries and to be honest to me that's bull shit because in the end I will feel like I lost all my dignity and I will feel like I'm a housekeeper not a wife and this is so un acceptable.
To be honest I really do think that even if I have done all that bull suit the guy won't appreciate it because they simply don't appreciate anything what so ever (they never did they never will) so what's the point of doing it loose all my effort and energy and I know for sure in the end he won't appreciate it and he mighty go chase another girl just because the house duties don't allow me to have time to take care of myself and take care of my looks.
Let's face it guys don't appreciate anything their wife dose for them they don't even thank her so why should I get married and have kids and I know for sure in the end he will show no appreciation towards the stuff I do for him ?! Plus why should I get married and do these stuff in the first place ?! Just for the sake of the word love that it had no meaning in my dictionary ?! Plus the other question is: will he do the house duties and the face the shit I am facing with the kids just for the sake of love ?! Off corse not he only wants his stuff to be ready and available when he gets back from work and that's it nothing else and this is un acceptable.
I know some guys will be like he's working Bluh Bluh Bluh and he's getting money to support u and the kids, yeah got it and I know most of the girls appreciate that, but the work he's doing is nothing compared to what the girls will be doing at home compare them both and you guys will find that the work that the girls are doing at home are way more than the work he's actually doing so you guys cannot even compare both at all. Okay during the week he's working and he's not Avilable to do anything during the week, what about the weekends can't he he also help with the house duties, or he just wanna sit and watch tv and do nothing at all ?!
(I'm not talking about me I'm taking myself as an example that's all).
Personally speaking I think of it from this perspective that the house duties the wife and hubby should do it, because the house is like s company and every one has a role to do. No company on earth will work solo in a company, in the company every one has a role to no Body works Their own at all. So that means the wife and the hubby should work together and the hubby should not allow the wife to work alone in this house (that's my opinion).
Personally I will never ever gonna get married because I don't wanna end up fighting about who should do this and who should do that around the house (I just don't like fighting and arguing) and the other reason is that I really can't imagen doing the dissgusting house duties it's simply not me. The other reason is marriage is simple boring and takes away my freedoms I whT be able to go anywhere or do whatever I like and want just because I have something that is not allowing me to do so so witch is husband and kids. Personally I rather be free doing whatever I want, going to places I want, traveling, shopping and spending time with my dog etc... To me that's so much better than getting married and having kids and then in the end i won't be able to do anything that I want and love and I will not gonna be able to have time for myself and my dog and I won't be able to travel either. :-)
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